Volkswagen Tiguan

The Volkswagen Tiguan and Skoda Kodiaq are essentially the same SUV underneath, with the same engine, gearbox and chassis. It's just that the 5-seat Tiguan R-Line is a little smaller; something that's addressed by the recently launched Volkswagen Tayron. As such, given your requirements and usage, you should stick with the Tiguan as it is too good a deal to pass up. And for what it's worth, the Tiguan is a full CBU import, while the Kodiaq is locally assembled, but moreover, there are some feature differences between the two - the Volkswagen gets ADAS, adaptive dampers and a larger 15-inch screen, while the Skoda gets powered and ventilated front seats, rear window blinds and a 360-degree camera. The biggest difference is that the Kodiaq offers third row of seats, but they're not very spacious, and since you mostly travel with four passengers, it's better to use that space for luggage anyway - the VW loses about 130 litres to the Skoda (in 5-seat mode) but they're both very spacious. With regards to your priorities of comfort in traffic, good rear seat comfort for family use, and long-term ownership satisfaction, the two are virtually the same.

The Volkswagen Tayron R-Line is shaping up to be an interesting SUV. It is nicely loaded with features - more so than the imported Tiguan R-Line - and features sporty looks and a powerful engine. As for the DSG gearbox, yes, dual-clutch gearboxes have been known to experience greater wear than torque-converters or CVTs, but that is only if they're not handled with care, and mostly in stop-and-go conditions.

Best practices like shifting out of D at a standstill, rolling off smoothly will greatly prolong the life of the gearbox, and of course not skimping on recommended maintenance. Moreover, these issues were more prominent in older iterations of the DSG used on smaller cars, like the Polo's DQ200, things have been greatly improved in newer iterations and on larger cars with more powerful engines; the Tayron uses a newer DQ381-7A. 

As for VFM, we do not know the price as yet, though the hope is that local assembly will at least make it competitive. However, later this year, Volkswagen will launch a standard version of the Tayron, without the R-Line specification, that will miss the body kit and some features, and that could be the one to pick.

A Skoda Kodiaq is better equipped, more spacious, and it is more powerful than the Mercedes GLA petrol. A Volkswagen Tiguan R Line is also something you can consider, which is a bit sportier to drive than the Kodiaq, and now with huge discounts, is a tempting option.

The Volkswagen Tiguan R-Line is enjoyable to drive but is undoubtedly expensive. Regular maintenance should not be a problem, but the availability of parts could be an issue in case of accident repairs. Expensive imported cars also typically do not retain their value unless there is special market interest.

As an alternative, consider the Skoda Kodiaq, which is essentially the same car underneath but offers more features and a generally plusher interior. Parts availability will also be better for the Kodiaq.

If driving experience is a priority, the Audi Q3 is also worth considering. It may not be cutting-edge inside, but it is engaging to drive with a strong petrol engine. With the next-generation Q3 expected in India next year, you could push for big discounts on the current model.